Dizzy and Mistress Starlight
Dizzy and Mistress Starlight have been actively engaged in the kink lifestyle for over 26 years and have been married for the same length of time. Throughout our involvement in the kink community, we have conducted workshops across the country and partnered with others to develop educational content aimed at safely introducing individuals who are unfamiliar with the kink world. The information presented in our courses is derived from our vast personal experiences and perspectives; it is important to acknowledge that it does not constitute the sole approach to engaging in practices within the kink community. Our methodology is grounded in the principles of Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK), emphasizing the understanding of risks, maintaining situational awareness, ensuring consensual engagement, and fostering a genuinely playful and creative environment.
All Sessions by Dizzy and Mistress Starlight
Think Before You Idiot - Dungeon Do’s & Don’ts
Whether you’re brand new to the dungeon or a familiar face, we’ve all had that moment of wondering… am I doing this right? The truth is, every play space has its own rhythm—and knowing how to move within it makes the experience better for everyone. This class breaks down the essential do’s and don’ts of dungeon etiquette in a fun, approachable, and judgment-free way. We’ll cover everything from consent and communication to scene awareness, boundaries, and respectful behavior in shared spaces. Because no one wants to be the person getting side-eyes—or worse, disrupting someone else’s scene. Come learn how to show up with confidence, respect the space, and elevate not just your own experience—but everyone else’s too. And don’t worry… we’ve all been that person at least once.
Pain for Pleasure, Not for Injury
Interest in kink culture has steadily increased over the years. This phenomenon permeates various media platforms, evidenced by mobile advertisements and cartoons depicting scenarios such as a duct tape-gagged woman asserting her right to speak freely and the global impact of popular literature like Fifty Shades of Grey. Nevertheless, many newcomers to the kink community find themselves uncertain about how to begin, what activities to engage in, and how to ensure their safety while exploring this lifestyle. "Pain for Pleasure" emerged from the need to address instances where kink-related experiences have gone awry. This initiative is a comprehensive guide for novices and allows seasoned kink enthusiasts to share knowledge and insights. Over the past 20 years, this session has consistently attracted a packed audience, fostering a collaborative environment for learning and development. The class adopts an open format that encourages discussion and practical demonstrations. Participants can bring their partners and toy bags to enhance the experience.
The Art of Cupping
Cupping is an ancient practice that uses gentle suction to lift the skin, increase circulation, and help relieve tension, discomfort, and inflammation. As the cups create a vacuum, they encourage movement of blood and lymph, supporting the body’s natural detox and recovery processes In this class, you’ll learn the basics of cupping, explore different techniques (including suction and heat), and gain a better understanding of how it can be used safely and effectively. Join us for a hands-on, informative, and relaxing experience.
Playing to a Beat
Ever wanted your play to feel like a perfectly timed rhythm instead of guesswork? When you sync your touch, your energy, and your intention to music, something shifts—control deepens, anticipation builds, and every movement hits just right. The beat becomes your guide… and your power. In this class, you’ll learn how to use different styles of music to influence pace, mood, and intensity—how to slow it down, build it up, and keep your submissive exactly where you want them… hanging on every beat. We’ll explore how to turn music into a tool for connection, tension, and play that flows effortlessly from start to finish. Bring your toy bag. Bring your curiosity. Come ready to play, experiment, and maybe leave with a whole new rhythm.