The Rabbi


*The* Rabbi - Born to kink on International Sex Day, June 9th or 6/9 for short, The Rabbi (he/him) is a cisgender, ambimorous, gynesexual, sadistic bratty daddy dom. He has been called the "Prince of the Pervertables," "The Pied Piper of Brats," and "The Carrot Top of Kink." (That last one was a compliment, right?) He creates his unique toys with a sadistic flair that would make the prop master on Cutthroat Kitchen jealous, including ceiling fan paddles, Lego nipple clamps, and a mop head flogger selling them online through the SINagogugeBDSM Etsy store. The Rabbi has electrocuted people with slinkys, broken all ten commandments (over someone's ass), and hit people with everything he can get his hands on, including a literal kitchen sink.

Currently, he's a mental health professional with a sex therapist certification in progress and hopes to follow in the steps of early psychological pioneer, Wonder Woman creator, and polyamorous kinkster William Moulton Marston. With his partner, LilPonyBites, the Rabbi has presented both in-person and virtually for events from Coast to Coast (Wicked Grounds in San Fransisco to the Coastal Carolina Fetish Fair) and everywhere in between, including Frolicon, Planned Parenthood; Thrive Conference; Indiana Pet, Pup, and Trainer Contest; and many more. He currently is the educational program director and sits on the board of directors for the House of Bacchus in Columbus, Ohio. Follow him on FetLife as SINagogueBDSM and find all other social media accounts at

All Sessions by The Rabbi

2:00 PM - 3:30 PM

INSTRUMENTS OF ASS PERCUSSION: Introduction to Body Drumming

Body drumming is a form of massage-like rhythmic impact play where the drummer hits the receiver with drumsticks of different textures, sizes, and shapes in sync with the music, in conjunction with sensory deprivation via headphones and blindfold to create the illusion to the receiver that their own body is the musical instrument creating the sounds. Body drumming can be sensual, sadistic, or even orgasmic. The class will cover technique, equipment needed, music selection, and more.

4:00 PM - 5:30 PM


It’s been said that with enough imagination (and lube), anything can be a sex toy. Kink must be consensual but must not be costly. Creativity is king, and you can give a beautiful beating on a budget. This class will help you get more bang for your buck by making use of over 101 items found at your friendly neighborhood dollar store! This class is excellent for beginner and veteran cent saving sadists and will cover several different types of play, creativity with pervertibles, DIY, safety, and more.

3:00 PM - 4:30 PM

BRATTY DADDIES: What the hell?!?

Brats are submissive rule-breakers, and daddies are dominants who make the rules, so … what the hell? What is a bratty daddy? Who are they? How do you resolve the dichotomy between those two labels? What rules will be broken, and who decided those rules anyway? Learn about the creative chaotic good of the kink world. Taught by the pied piper of brats himself, The Rabbi.

5:00 PM - 6:30 PM

I Got a Case of BODY LANGUAGE - Reading Your Bottom in a Scene

How do you craft your scene when your bottom is non-verbal, whether it is from a gag, hood, subspace or just shyness? How do restraints change body language? We'll cover this topic from the head, shoulders, knees, and toes, so you'll be in the know when things are going well or not so well.