

INDUSTRY ONLY EVENT
Learn from a multi-award winning professional foot model how to to package, price, and profit from your feet! Join this straight-to-the-point class on turning your toes into a profitable asset, and leave with years worth of knowledge and experience jam-packed into one ultimate masterclass!
INDUSTRY ONLY EVENT
An intimate, hands-on class for partners who want to deepen trust, connection, and erotic communication through touch. You’ll learn foundational massage techniques, body awareness, and how to provide therapeutic touch to your partner.
INDUSTRY ONLY EVENT
Get Connected @ The FETISH CONnect! Registered Talent & Producers are invited to take part in this intensive 1-on-1 Speed Networking Session! During this event you will be able to put a face to a name and exchange business cards and contact information while at Fetish Con. It's your chance to meet and network before the parties begin!
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Whether you’re new to Fetish Con or a longtime attendee, this is a great chance to connect before the weekend fun begins!
INDUSTRY ONLY SPA DAY
Services are FREE and Sponsored by Fetish Con
We’ve partnered with a local hair stylist, makeup artist, lash artist, and a massage therapist to offer you a place to Relax. Refresh. Radiate. while you soak up the entire Fetish Con experience and get ready to kick off the weekend!
Get the full schedule for the weekend here: The OASIS
Services Offered Include:
TIPS are appreciated for all services provided
Walk-ins Only 🌴 1st Come / 1st Pampered

Services are FREE and Sponsored by TBA
We’ve partnered with a local hair stylist, makeup artist, and a massage therapist to offer you a place to Relax. Refresh. Radiate. while you soak up the entire Fetish Con experience and get ready to kick off the weekend!
11:00AM – 6:00PM Industry Only
6:00PM – 7:00PM All Access Pass Holders
Get the full schedule for the weekend here: The OASIS
Services Offered Include:
TIPS are appreciated for all services provided
Walk-ins Only 🌴 1st Come / 1st Pampered
When done correctly, a domination session can be highly therapeutic for both the Domme and the submissive. We will discuss the steps to take both prior to, during and after a session to be able to provide a more holistic and gentler experience. This class is for the experienced Dommes who are looking to expand the types of sessions they offer and those just starting out who are still trying to find their style. As well as for submissives who are looking to get more out of their sessions and are curious about the more therapeutic side to your kink. All are welcome.
This seminar offers adult industry professionals the naked truths and myths debunked about tax filing, tax deductions and LLC formation from a licensed tax attorney and licensed CPA. Our company, Floorplay Financial, has in depth and specialized experience in serving industry adult industry professional and businesses. We love helping our community and colleagues navigate the complexities of adult industry business and careers. br> br> Seminar hosted by Nate Mallory, ESQ and Mia Lee, CPA, co-founders of Floorplay Financial, a fully licensed tax, legal and investment firm specializing in serving adult industry clients.
Whether you’re brand new to the dungeon or a familiar face, we’ve all had that moment of wondering… am I doing this right? The truth is, every play space has its own rhythm—and knowing how to move within it makes the experience better for everyone. This class breaks down the essential do’s and don’ts of dungeon etiquette in a fun, approachable, and judgment-free way. We’ll cover everything from consent and communication to scene awareness, boundaries, and respectful behavior in shared spaces. Because no one wants to be the person getting side-eyes—or worse, disrupting someone else’s scene. Come learn how to show up with confidence, respect the space, and elevate not just your own experience—but everyone else’s too. And don’t worry… we’ve all been that person at least once.
New Relationship Energy (NRE) describes the thrilling emotions and infatuation experienced early in romantic bonds. Symptoms can include obsession, heightened attention, and idealization of partners. We can feel euphoric and super-charged. But NRE comes with its own perils. We can rush into commitments too fast, ignore red flags, neglect existing relationships, and experience Dominant or submissive frenzy. This class will examine what NRE is, its biological origins, common mistakes while in NRE, special considerations for BDSM and polyamorous relationships, and approaches to evolve from infatuation to lasting, authentic relationships.
Hosted by, Bailey Paige
Are you new to Fetish Con? Flying solo this year? Feeling a little overwhelmed but excited to dive in?
We’ve got the perfect icebreaker for you: Fetish Con Friends - a 90-minute casual hangout designed to help you make real connections in a low-pressure, welcoming space. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just exploring the scene for the first time, this event is all about bringing people together.
âś… Meet New People
âś… Make New Friends
âś… Relax & Have Fun
Expect friendly faces, chill vibes, and a chance to mingle with others who are just as excited (and maybe a little nervous) as you are. Some folks will be dressed in fetish gear, others in casual wear – come as you are and be yourself.
You don’t have to know anyone to feel like you belong. This is your invitation. Let’s make Fetish Con unforgettable - together.
Visual effects can add a whole new layer of creativity to fetish content; from enhancing fantasy elements to making scenes feel more polished and immersive. In this workshop, Clips4Sale creator Scarlett Cummings will share how she incorporates visual SFX into her clips to elevate storytelling, highlight key moments, and create memorable visuals that stand out. Scarlett will walk through approachable techniques for adding and layering visual effects during the editing process, showing how creators can use simple tools to enhance their content without needing a full production setup. Whether it’s subtle visual touches or more stylized effects, this session will give creators practical ideas for bringing their fantasies to life and adding a unique visual signature to their clips.
Conversations with a Hirsute and Hirsutophile is a discussion-based workshop led by Mx. Sizzle and Shadow exploring body hair as a form of expression, attraction, and kink. Through candid conversation and shared interview clips from members of the hirsute and hirsutophile communities, we'll unpack the intersections of body hair, fetish, identity, power, gender, and body autonomy. Whether body hair is part of your kink, your identity, or you're simply curious, this workshop invites participants into a nuanced conversation about desire, stigma, and the diversity of erotic experience.
Interest in kink culture has steadily increased over the years. This phenomenon permeates various media platforms, evidenced by mobile advertisements and cartoons depicting scenarios such as a duct tape-gagged woman asserting her right to speak freely and the global impact of popular literature like Fifty Shades of Grey. Nevertheless, many newcomers to the kink community find themselves uncertain about how to begin, what activities to engage in, and how to ensure their safety while exploring this lifestyle. "Pain for Pleasure" emerged from the need to address instances where kink-related experiences have gone awry. This initiative is a comprehensive guide for novices and allows seasoned kink enthusiasts to share knowledge and insights. Over the past 20 years, this session has consistently attracted a packed audience, fostering a collaborative environment for learning and development. The class adopts an open format that encourages discussion and practical demonstrations. Participants can bring their partners and toy bags to enhance the experience.
Domming 101 led by 2 local, professional dominatrices. Learn the ins and outs of Domming, consent, morals, and everything in between. Part lecture, part open discussion & Q&A.
KICK START YOUR KINKY HEART! is the ultimate Opening Day or First-Morning session to energize your entire event. Designed to shake off travel fatigue and morning fog, this high-impact, high-connection experience gets attendees out of their seats and into their bodies, minds, and kinky hearts. With interactive games, playful negotiation challenges, and shared storytelling, participants jumpstart their creativity, build instant community, and step confidently into their authentic selves—all before lunch. This is not a lecture; it’s a launchpad. Inspired by the rave reviews of Jon aka HiThereCatsuit’s Improv class—hailed as “the best way to start a conference”—this session delivers that same kinetic spark with even more heart. It creates an immediate sense of belonging, safety, and joy that sets the tone for the entire event. If your conference thrives on connection, growth, and unforgettable experiences, then Kick Start Your Kinky Heart! is the must-have opener to get everyone fired up and fully present.
Your voice is one of the most powerful, and often overlooked, tools in creating fetish content. From slow, controlled breathing to confident commands, subtle vocal choices can completely change the energy of a scene and deepen the fantasy for viewers. This panel explores how to use breath control, cadence, tone, whisper work, and vocal authority to elevate your clips and connect more strongly with your audience. We’ll discuss how different vocal styles can signal power, intimacy, teasing, or control, and how small adjustments in delivery can make content feel more immersive and personal.
Step behind the camera and learn the essential building blocks of professional videography. Videography 101 is designed for beginners and aspiring creators looking to understand the fundamentals of capturing compelling video content. This lecture-based class covers camera basics, composition, lighting techniques, audio essentials, and how to develop a visual style that tells a story. Students will gain insight into equipment selection, shooting techniques, scene planning, and practical workflows used in professional productions. Whether you’re interested in content creation, documentary work, events, or artistic visual projects, this course provides the foundational knowledge needed to confidently begin your videography journey. Perfect for beginners ready to transform ideas into moving visuals.
Topics Include:
• Understanding camera settings (ISO, aperture, shutter speed)
• Composition and framing techniques
• Lighting fundamentals for indoor and outdoor shooting
• Audio basics and sound capture
• Storyboarding and shot planning
• Movement and camera stabilization
• Intro to editing workflow and file management
• Building confidence behind the camera
A class on the basics of impact play, this includes safety, communication, exploring some of the toys you can use, difference between thudy and stingy, best practices for impact, plus much more! Alongside my wonderful little guinea pig submissive, Jamie Locke, serving as a great demonstration!
This course explores the therapeutic potential of kink-informed practices for individuals in the sex industry navigating trauma recovery. Drawing from trauma-informed care, somatic psychology, and kink-affirming frameworks, this session provides participants with tools to understand how consensual kink can serve as a resource for healing, empowerment, and nervous system regulation. Participants will explore concepts of consent, boundaries, power exchange, embodiment, and self-agency in the context of trauma resolution.
BDSM events often focus on play, education, social connection, and intense physical or emotional experiences. This class explores how intentional quiet spaces can support participant well-being, accessibility, and community care. Topics we will explore include sensory considerations, aftercare needs, consent and boundaries within shared rest areas, trauma-informed practices, accessibility, and practical strategies for designing environments that promote safety, decompression, and inclusion. Participants will learn how quiet spaces can benefit anyone seeking a moment of calm during an event.
TBA
Are you interested in the world of ass or foot smothering but have never tried it because you feel you lack the skill or maybe you've never had the opportunity or maybe you are concerned because you think SURELY I can't put my FULL weight on someone's FACE! FEAR NOT! Ramon and his amazing brats will help guide you through this comfortable world of human furniture smothering! You'll learn excellent positions for fun or profit that involve asses and feet going on faces and YOU'LL have the confidence to say to your partners or customers: YES! I'll smother you!
Female Dominants have a unique ability to use tease and denial in many ways which will cause their submissives to submit and desire them more than they realize. Join us as we explore how to incorporate tease and denial into your own D/s dynamic.
Welcome back folks! New to rope? Interested in tying? A professional just looking to go back to basics? Well then, this rope class is the perfect class for you! I'm well versed in using rope in ways that are simple, quick, and easy for more minimalistic but fun rope play. I'm super excited to teach you and can't wait for you to bight me and each other!
So your play partner is into feet &/or footwear. What do you do with that other than drop your feet, socks, or shoes into their lap? Come find out about the nature of such fetishes, some of the unique advantages these fetishes provide, and the many ways you can play with them on their own or by integrating them into BDSM.

Services are FREE and Sponsored by TBA
We’ve partnered with a local hair stylist, makeup artist, and a massage therapist to offer you a place to Relax. Refresh. Radiate. while you soak up the entire Fetish Con experience and get ready to kick off the weekend!
11:00AM – 6:00PM Industry Only
6:00PM – 7:00PM All Access Pass Holders
Get the full schedule for the weekend here: The OASIS
Services Offered Include:
TIPS are appreciated for all services provided
Walk-ins Only 🌴 1st Come / 1st Pampered
Stellina will teach you all about Reddit, a powerful tool you can use to build your brand, reach new fans, and create a robust online community around your niche. This 90-minute class will be broken into three 30-minute parts. Part One is for beginners and will explain what Reddit is, why adult creators should use it, how to create and customize your account, and how to start using the platform without getting restricted. Part Two is for intermediate users and will go into detail about how subreddits work, finding ones that are a good match for your content, and how to communicate with moderators. Part Three is for advanced users and will focus on how to create and customize your own subreddits, how to moderate them, and how to assign moderators and automods to help curate them. This class will have several opportunities for you to ask questions and share your experiences with Reddit.
Traditional financial advice wasn't designed for polycules, chosen families, power exchange dynamics, or other non-traditional relationships. Join CPA and forensic accountant Mia Lee and tax attorney Nate Mallory, Esq. of Floorplay Financial for a practical discussion on the financial realities of unconventional relationships, including shared finances, taxes, asset protection, estate planning, and financial boundaries. Learn how to protect your money, your relationships, and the people you love—no matter what your family structure looks like.
This is the class where you will learn how to use hands, floggers, paddles and crops and canes to torture, tease and tenderize. The presentation that has been standing room only since 2014 is back again to answer questions such as: What is the best type of flogger to use on breasts or bottoms? Why is it a good idea to do a “warm-up”? Are riding crops really necessary? Why do I need a paddle when I have my hand? Is sub-space similar to the elusive and mystical g-spot? If you have found yourself asking these or similar questions look no further because this lecture is going to help you find the answers. Presented by Master Mastiff, we are going to talk terminology, demonstrate technique and spend some time on the do’s, the don’ts and the don’t stops. We will discuss materials such as wood vs. leather, look for the answer to the eternal question of stingy vs. thuddy and of course go over communication before, safety during and aftercare after. We demonstrate the different types of strikes, positions for play and cover basic anatomy and safety. The material is presented through demonstration, lecture and Q&A. Although geared to the novice to intermediate player there is plenty for more advance players to enjoy. We also discuss safe words, negotiation, warm up/cool down, sub space and sub-drop. If you attended in the years past, come back and see it again, we are sure there was something you missed and if you didn’t make it one of the previous years, what are you waiting for?
Cupping is an ancient practice that uses gentle suction to lift the skin, increase circulation, and help relieve tension, discomfort, and inflammation. As the cups create a vacuum, they encourage movement of blood and lymph, supporting the body’s natural detox and recovery processes In this class, you’ll learn the basics of cupping, explore different techniques (including suction and heat), and gain a better understanding of how it can be used safely and effectively. Join us for a hands-on, informative, and relaxing experience.
Hosted by, Bailey Paige
Are you new to Fetish Con? Flying solo this year? Feeling a little overwhelmed but excited to dive in?
We’ve got the perfect icebreaker for you: Fetish Con Friends - a 90-minute casual hangout designed to help you make real connections in a low-pressure, welcoming space. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just exploring the scene for the first time, this event is all about bringing people together.
âś… Meet New People
âś… Make New Friends
âś… Relax & Have Fun
Expect friendly faces, chill vibes, and a chance to mingle with others who are just as excited (and maybe a little nervous) as you are. Some folks will be dressed in fetish gear, others in casual wear – come as you are and be yourself.
You don’t have to know anyone to feel like you belong. This is your invitation. Let’s make Fetish Con unforgettable - together.
Clips get you started, but the real growth often comes from everything around them. This workshop explores how to maximize your earnings on Clips4Sale by using tools like chat, customs, C4S+, webcams, and referrals more strategically. Instead of treating these features as add-ons, we’ll look at how they can work together to support a more consistent, diversified income stream. We’ll break down how creators are turning conversations into sales, repurposing content across formats, and building multiple revenue streams without doubling their workload. This session is designed to be practical and actionable, with clear takeaways you can apply right away.
Join a panel of successful Chaturbate fetish creators as they discuss how to build and grow a niche live-streaming business. Learn how to get started, attract the right audience, build an engaged community, diversify your income, and create authentic experiences that keep fans coming back. Whether you're already creating fetish content or exploring live streaming for the first time, you'll leave with actionable tips, real-world insights, and a better understanding of how Chaturbate can help you grow your brand, expand your business, and connect with dedicated fans.
Bratting is often used very colloquially in modern speech, but this display of aggressive submissiveness has a lot of intricacies that can often be missed. I will go in depth of my experiences of 10+ years of being a brat submissive, what to expect, and how to best put your bratting into practice.
You don’t need to have a huge play bag with lots of heavy equipment to inflict your sadistic pleasure on your submissives. Due to Ms Callissi’s injuries, she has limited strength and has thus spent years seeking out all types of lighter toys that she can wield to create significant sensations for her submissives. Join us as we discusses a variety of smaller toys that leave a bigger impact.
Are you thinking of becoming a kinky creator and not sure where to start? Have you just started and feel like you stalled? Join industry expert Liz River as she delves into essential points and factors to explore toward the beginning of your journey as an adult entertainer as well as how to harness your natural strengths and desires to forge a path to success.
Some of the most memorable fetish content doesn’t focus on just one element, it layers multiple fantasies together. In this panel, we’ll explore how creators can combine complementary kinks to make content feel more specific, immersive, and marketable. From pairing feet content with inflatables, to adding unexpected details like bubble gum during JOI, or combining aesthetics like giantess and stockings, layering fetishes can open the door to new audiences while keeping your content fresh. This creator-focused session will look at how to identify natural fetish pairings, build scenes around them, and turn small creative choices into powerful niche appeal.
Take your videography skills to the next level with Videography 102, an intermediate-level lecture focused on refining technique, elevating production quality, and developing a cinematic approach to storytelling. Designed for students with basic camera knowledge, this class dives deeper into creative direction, advanced lighting, intentional camera movement, production strategy, and professional post-production workflows.
Learn how to create visually striking scenes, direct subjects effectively, and produce polished content with purpose and impact. This course bridges technical mastery with artistic vision—ideal for creators looking to sharpen their edge and stand out in a competitive visual landscape.
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Perfect for creators ready to move beyond the basics and produce professional, cinematic work.
In BDSM, scenes don't begin with the first strike or end with the last word of a command—they begin and end with care. This class explores the vital practices of before care and aftercare as shared responsibilities between submissives and dominants. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or refining your dynamic, we'll dive into the emotional, psychological, and physical layers that keep BDSM consensual, connective, and safe. Participants will learn how to proactively care for their partner and themselves before and after a scene, tailoring their approach to different relationship styles, intensity levels, and individual needs. This class supports kink that's not just hot, but healing.
This course explores the therapeutic potential of kink-informed practices for individuals in the sex industry navigating trauma recovery. Drawing from trauma-informed care, somatic psychology, and kink-affirming frameworks, this session provides participants with tools to understand how consensual kink can serve as a resource for healing, empowerment, and nervous system regulation. Participants will explore concepts of consent, boundaries, power exchange, embodiment, and self-agency in the context of trauma resolution.
Living Authentically Kinky: Kindness, Connection, and the Courage to Be You is a powerful, heart-centered class designed to help participants embrace their kink identity with courage, compassion, and confidence. Led by Jon aka HiThereCatsuit, this workshop dives deep into what it means to live a life of integrity within the kink world—navigating shame, guilt, and social stigma to reclaim personal joy and agency. Combining practical tools with emotional insight, the class empowers attendees to define their own “normal” and build more authentic, meaningful connections through intentional kindness and honest self-expression. What sets this class apart is its focus on the often-overlooked emotional core of kink. Through stories, reflection, and real-world examples, participants explore how kindness (to self and others) enhances play, fosters connection, and supports a sustainable kinky life—regardless of orientation, experience, or ability to be “out.” Whether attendees are seasoned kinksters or just beginning their journey, they will walk away with renewed confidence, clarity, and a sense of belonging. This class is ideal for inclusive events that value authenticity, emotional intelligence, and connection-driven kink.
Within the world of BDSM, where pleasure and power intertwine in endlessly varied ways, few things are more sacred than the compact of consent—a shared language through which trust is constructed, boundaries mapped, and desires brought out of shadow. Yet, as with any language, the practice of consent is not innate, but learned and refined—subject to misinterpretation, silence, or the blurring haze of expectation. The DBSA method arises not as a code to be memorized, but a practice: a framework designed to hold the complexities of consent in language, action, and aftermath.
DBSA stands for Desires, Boundaries, Safewords, and Aftercare; each step serving as a checkpoint and commitment. Negotiation using this structure is dynamic, collaborative, and, above all, deeply human.
By following the DBSA method, participants give structure to what is often messy and improvisational, transforming negotiation from a perfunctory checklist into an erotic and empathetic act itself. In this way, the method offers not only safety, but the possibility of deeper play—because only when we are secure in our limits can we fully explore what lies beyond them.
The DBSA method was developed specifically for kinky negotiation, but its logic of explicitness and mutual respect can strengthen communication in any relationship.
Master Mastiff is branching out. No longer content to just teach you 50 ways to beat your lover, he wants to share his tricks, tips and techniques for adding a charge to your bedroom and dungeon fun. We will discuss the types of electric wands and how they work, go over basic scene safety and we will discuss how they came to be part of our kinky tool box. Once we have covered that, we will review the different conductors and accessories that make electric wands the versatile tool they are. After that, the fun begins with a demonstration as Master Mastiff’s assistant Naughty Girl, will join him for this class as she offers up her body in the name of kink education followed by a hands-on Q&A session. Whether you are new to electrical play or just want to get more out of the gear you have, this class will help you light up your next wand session.
Ever wanted your play to feel like a perfectly timed rhythm instead of guesswork? When you sync your touch, your energy, and your intention to music, something shifts—control deepens, anticipation builds, and every movement hits just right. The beat becomes your guide… and your power. In this class, you’ll learn how to use different styles of music to influence pace, mood, and intensity—how to slow it down, build it up, and keep your submissive exactly where you want them… hanging on every beat. We’ll explore how to turn music into a tool for connection, tension, and play that flows effortlessly from start to finish. Bring your toy bag. Bring your curiosity. Come ready to play, experiment, and maybe leave with a whole new rhythm.
Despite it's popularity and versatility, humiliation play is one of the more misunderstood and shunned fetishes, even within the kink community. This class is for those who DON'T get it as well as for those who like, crave, or engage in it. While more of an intro and overview than a how to class there will be enough of real world anecdotes and examples to help illustrate points and to fuel some new ideas and desires. Come learn why people from both sides of the slash like this fetish along with some myths, opportunities, and challenges unique to this style of play *and* it's associated aftercare, and the many types of humiliation play and fun ways it can be done on it's own or combined with pretty much any type of kink. None of the examples or any demo in this class will be long or intense enough to upset the 'cringe' averse.

Learn how to protect your business contracts and risk management, stay tax-ready with better record keeping systems, and manage your time for maximum ROI (return on investment) by focusing on what actually pays and avoiding common income drains. This seminar is presented by Mia Lee, CPA and active sex worker, and Nate Mallory, a licensed tax attorney. Nate and Mia cofounded Floorplay Financial, the adult industry's first all-in-one company for tax, bookkeeping, investment management and business law.
This class will assume familiarity with the basic techniques used when playing with flexible toys (floggers, galley whips, dragon tails and tongues, whips). It will explore how to apply those techniques at different speeds and pitches of intensity, using body mechanics and footwork to enhance the top’s control of the toy. It will then go on to show how that enhanced control can be deployed in scenes that take the bottom on a journey that can be both sensual and emotional. Attendees will be invited to practice techniques at various points in the class - so bring your toys!
Ending a kinky relationship can be profoundly disorienting. We might have come to rely on a D/s dynamic to organize and give meaning to our lives, and now that structure is shattered. We can struggle to define ourselves without our roles or dynamics. The fallout can affect our friends and other partners, and even alter how we are perceived in the larger kink community. Let’s tackle the unique impacts of the breakup of a kinky relationship. We’ll examine the rise and fall of a relationship, how to decide if it's not working out, how to approach the decision to break up, and how to deal with someone breaking up with you. We’ll also cover ways to craft the beginning of a relationship to make a possible ending more manageable. This class is for anyone who has struggled with the severing of BDSM ties, or who wants to be prepared to handle the end of a kinky relationship with less hurt, hassle, and heartache.
Are you hungry to explore the erotic possibilities of food play? Temptress Mango is serving up a feast for your imagination—and your appetite. In Feed Your Senses: Exploring Food Play in Kink & Content, Temptress Mango blends hands-on education with live demonstration to showcase how food can become a tool for pleasure, creativity, and connection. Attendees will learn practical techniques for incorporating food safely and effectively into both personal play and on-camera performances, including setup tips, cleanup strategies, and ways to engage multiple senses through texture, temperature, and taste. From decadent desserts and sticky sweet scenes to power dynamics that blur indulgence and control, this workshop explores food play as both an erotic art form and a medium for expression. Temptress Mango will discuss consent and boundaries, hygiene and preparation, and the psychological elements that make feeding, restraint, and sensory teasing so powerfully intimate. Whether you’re a Dominant, submissive, performer, or simply curious about mixing flavor with fantasy, you’ll leave inspired—and equipped—to bring more taste, texture, and temptation into your play.
Living Authentically Kinky: Kindness, Connection, and the Courage to Be You is a powerful, heart-centered class designed to help participants embrace their kink identity with courage, compassion, and confidence. Led by Jon aka HiThereCatsuit, this workshop dives deep into what it means to live a life of integrity within the kink world—navigating shame, guilt, and social stigma to reclaim personal joy and agency. Combining practical tools with emotional insight, the class empowers attendees to define their own “normal” and build more authentic, meaningful connections through intentional kindness and honest self-expression. What sets this class apart is its focus on the often-overlooked emotional core of kink. Through stories, reflection, and real-world examples, participants explore how kindness (to self and others) enhances play, fosters connection, and supports a sustainable kinky life—regardless of orientation, experience, or ability to be “out.” Whether attendees are seasoned kinksters or just beginning their journey, they will walk away with renewed confidence, clarity, and a sense of belonging. This class is ideal for inclusive events that value authenticity, emotional intelligence, and connection-driven kink.
As a couple in a 24/7 healthy dynamic, we wanted to offer a much more realistic yet congruent view that offers the exciting roleplay of a dom/sub dynamic while recognizing the autonomy of the individuals within, all while also providing to the subs' wants for consensual helplessness, and how to incorporate all of this into your daily lives.
Death is a part of life—but in polyamorous and BDSM relationships, navigating end-of-life care brings unique emotional, relational, and logistical challenges. This class explores how to support a partner, dominant, submissive, or chosen family member through terminal illness, palliative care, or death while honoring the structure of your dynamic and the bonds within your polycule. We'll discuss the practicalities of care, the shifting emotional landscape, and how power exchange, love, and consent evolve in the face of mortality. Whether you're a caregiver, facing terminal illness yourself, or preparing for the future with your partners, this class is a space for compassion, community, and courage.