Lil Lady Aalyanna
I am Little Lady Aalyanna, but you can call my Lil Aaly. I identify as a neurodivergent Poly Pansexual Polysexual Sadistic Little. My pronouns are she/her. I have been with my Daddy since 1999. I have been in the lifestyle since 1996 and have been teaching since 2011. I have taught at FPE, Florida Leather & Fetish Pride, Fetcon, WOLF, EPIC, DOMCOM (LOLA), Southeast Leatherfest, KCO, FLAC. I have taught Violet Wand, Anticipatory Service, Before & After Care, Safety & Personal Accountability, A Little You and Yes, I can. Dungeon play is special for me I love topping with the violet wand and knife play. I also love submitting for electroplay of all kinds, knife play, flogger play, and fear play. One of favorite passions, is creating littles space for littles at conventions. I love it when they walk into a room that is designed for them and that smile that lights their face. This single act of service for the community brings me so much joy.
All Sessions by Lil Lady Aalyanna
Holding the Space: Before & Aftercare for Both Sides of the Slash
In BDSM, scenes don't begin with the first strike or end with the last word of a command—they begin and end with care. This class explores the vital practices of before care and aftercare as shared responsibilities between submissives and dominants. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or refining your dynamic, we'll dive into the emotional, psychological, and physical layers that keep BDSM consensual, connective, and safe. Participants will learn how to proactively care for their partner and themselves before and after a scene, tailoring their approach to different relationship styles, intensity levels, and individual needs. This class supports kink that's not just hot, but healing.